A turn in the road

Another turn in the road..... we are now officially "empty-nesters". After raising 14 or so children we are just "US". Redefining ones self is a daunting process. More time to focus on what I like to do is definitely one of the benefits. Its the switching gears from hands on parenting to "hands off" parenting that seems to be the biggest challenge. I need some time to heal from the wounds of being treated so very badly and then I will see where it goes....... It's kinda like being 18...... I can be anybody I want...... what do I want to be??